Diplomacy

Its vital some times to have diplomacy and tact to deal people with different sets of thoughts and ideas however its not easy to implement concoct of ideas from every person and yet not to disappoint them for not using their idea. To do this Its needs lots of control and confidence on oneself. But does this work all the time?

Its hard and needs lots of patience to listen to every one's advices and suggestions. It some times puts you into confusion and at this situation, its better to show our stubbornness and at the same time I think its better to convey our feelings mildly but with sincerity so you really don't hurt yourself by trying to please others.

And some try to convey a message indirectly just to make sure every thing is in harmony but does this message go in a right way?

I guess some times its better to directly express what you feel, may be in pleasant way to the other person rather than telling some obvious stories or indirectly conveying the message. There is very good chance of misunderstanding and even if the other person gets hint of it, he/she may be confused depending on situations.

Some times it can hurt the other person if he/she knows whatever you have told is a lie when he/she considers you to be special. Its very hard to come up with same lie and usually will be very obvious over period of time. One should never try to be diplomatic or use tact when you feel a person is really important .

Overall diplomacy and tact should not be used in every situation and one needs to be stubborn on what they feel is right and should be less influential by every ones suggestions and advices.

Emotions vs Intelligence

Emotions are like gigantic waves which looks beautiful for the sight, mellifluous to hear and romantic to feel but most aggressive, volatile and dangerous when you deal them in a wrong way where as Intelligence is like a surfing on this waves avoiding any drifts to manage a smooth ride.

Once lot of Organizations preferred IQ(Intelligence Quotient) to measure the persons ability which off course seems to be working fine until we realized that human beings although very intelligent can utterly undo their performance or ability under different circumstances. We have great examples in history and names does not require as it is very obvious or at least we all are victims at one point or the other.

One knows its not a best way to deal but still the emotional urge always over rides the intelligence thought. It some times does not let us do the right thing although we know exactly what it is. And at the same time I also believe that Intelligence is of no use when you can't enjoy the beauty of life which comes with emotional elements like love, empathy and passion. A blend of emotions under perfect management of intelligence makes life perfect. And that's the whole reason now organizations measure ability on their EQ( Emotional Quotient) rather than IQ.

Its definitely a hard task and I feel I have to climb Everest to really manage. What do you guys think. Do you also truly feel the same?

Individuality

The day we come to United States we are so insecure and curious about how its going to be. We respect our seniors and help fellow students and at the same time try to explore opportunities just like how we were in our bachelors where we share, respect and express whatever we feel or like. We are more passionate, empathetic and lively.

But when you slowly start growing in profession we see lot of Individuality although a important thing to posses but not at the cost of losing all the above mention qualities. We tend to become more of introvert, constraint ourselves to people we know (groups) and always with huge expectations when interacting with people. We rarely share our passion, love, and respect to our friends and become more self centric and so individual. We also develop diplomacy, tact and unnecessary maturity which leads to fake conversations and touch me not relationships. The feeling of independence brings confidence but that should not turn into an attitude. A person should be independent and develop individuality but also have limitations to apply them. Its just my opinion sorry if I was wrong.

Dropbox A software to Store Files and Access Anywhere

Recently one of my friends referred me Dropbox which is really a nice software to store files atleast upto 2GB for free. Well whats so great about it? we can use gmail or google documents or yousendit, isn't it?

Yes you can use google documents or gmail to save files but there is still a limit for file size and moreover its not very organized whereas yousendit can take upto 100MB at a time but they will refresh every week so its not a permanent storage.

Overall Dropbox is good software easy to install and use. Initially everyone gets 2GB free memory and everytime you refer some one both you and your friend can earn 250 MB extra space upto a maximum of extra 3GB with referals but still a total of 5GB is still fine besides you have user friendly features where you can share your files, photos or videos with your friends and can access them from any computer where the software is installed if not from its website litterally on any hardware or OS.

The upload and download speeds are not bad at all, so all of us now are exchanging movies and some softwares by sharing with each other.

So just click here https://www.dropbox.com/referrals/NTUyMTM2NDA5 and try it on and don't forget to leave your feedback.

whats your Choice ? and Reason it.

The other day one of my friends asked me situational question and it was really difficult to answer but then I made my choice. Before I let you know my choice I want your stand so here is the situation

Assume you are Train driver and suddenly you saw group of children playing on the track while one child is playing on unused old track. Yes just like you I said I will stop it immediately but there is no time to slow it as it’s nearly impossible but then you have a chance to switch over the tracks. What would be your choice 1) continue on the same track where group of children playing or 2) use the unused old track where only one child is playing.

Give you choice and also reason it?