What is Love!!!

There is no argument in saying moonlight is the most romantic ambiance or Julia Roberts is great actress but the argument still lasts in what is love?

Lots of my friends including me always felt that love marriage is perfect because it helps develop chemistry and deep understanding of each other but some times I feel climbing Everest could be easier than finding true love. Saying so one would ask then why would there be many lovers if its really that hard? well my point is how many of this lovers truly feel made for each other or live together for life time. And why so many break ups if theirs is love? Here is my reasoning.

I always observed people getting confused with feelings like crush, liking,attraction, infatuation and proximity infatuation. After all this feelings sense almost same but means a lot different just like how camp fer tastes different than salt having almost same look.If I have to define them, this is how I do.

Crush is temporary attraction, which is a mere following of the current trend or craze and changes very often just like climate here in US. This probably could be a start for relationship but not really is.

And liking is appreciating the qualities or some aspects in a person which probably can lead to friendship or adoration in some way.

Attraction is more intense than crush where you want to be in this persons company for some reason, probably this can be a good start for relationship. At this stage most of us don't act real and always try to impress the opposite sex which could probably lead to misunderstandings later in relationship. Quiet often we see people in attraction consider as love and this is a potential cause for later breakups.

Infatuation happens more intense than attraction where you are more involved with each other. This feelings would appear intense but can fade away with time or situations.

Proximity infatuation develops when they are attracted and always together most of the times. This is intense but can fade away with separation.

Most of us tend to marry considering all the above feelings as love which off course can be building blocks to a relationship but then the true foundation is clear and deep understanding of each other and a feeling which will bind them together forever at any cost.

As I said this is not a fact like sun rises in the east and is most debatable. I just said what I felt and I welcome arguments. I will continue with arranged marriages in my next blog until then Chao!!!

Am I missing IPL?

The ball traces like a bullet.........what a splendid performance......there you go one more wicket.......what a catch....gilchrist launches like a rocket.....rohit breaks the hearts of kolkatta....what a spell from RP Singh....an amazing delivery...the ball straight to the mid on......tring tring....hello...hello...what the hell you doing at home till 9.......come to office..now I realize all this commentary is in my dreams. Soon I get ready and go to my office with some excuse for being late which became quite usual this days.

Yes the IPL was quite exciting with great performances at one side and with all other bollywood spice, miss bollywood and DJ stuff, fake ipl blogger etc made this IPL an exciting tournament. I was so deep into this game and I some how wanted to see deccan chargers atleast in semis where there performance last year was far below par and very disappointing. This year at begining no one really considered this team to be in top 4 pointing its weak bowling attack but the sheer discipline, attitude and desire to win rang the trumph cards for deccans whch was shown right from begining. Though the momentum was lost in middle of the tornament which again raised questions but then again the sheer determination of some of the players in semis and final felt they really deserve the IPL.

My long awaited smile finally came true after deccan winning the IPL and now I miss all that fun and excitement and trying to get back in routine life but wait before that the T20 starts from June 5th so I dont think I am going to miss the T20 excitement anyways. I guess just few days break again for that.......... theball traces like a bullet.........what a splen.did performance.....etc

What a Dream

I got a dream and this is how it goes...................................( I got to clear actually I am not married its just the way I want to explain dream)

Its 7 am in the morning still asleep but sun rays took the responsibility of mother and try to wake me up, partially successful in doing so, then my wife comes with bed coffee wow sky is limit for imagination, the situation was just like in old Telugu or Hindi movies.........wow looks like having a great day. Suddenly I see myself drenched with water and opened my eyes to realize its all dream so far and now comes the reality with hungry sorry angry wife with very inspiring lecture. For some time I moved like a cursor on laptop with mouse handled by my wife herself and acted according to her.

Again I started imagining the old movie story of wife making breakfast and serving with care,love etc and yes this time not too much disappointment She for real served with care and love...... not food but a list to buy for a party tonight. Suddenly from nowhere I see fall colors with beautiful flowers amidst a severe winter when I hear my wife's sweet voice asking me to drop her in office. Though I will be late by half an hour why the hell would I say no. With all the excitement I dropped her actually it would be appropriate to say I was dropped at her office because she is who drove it till there and Thanks god that excitement blinded all the mistakes she had done during the drive and then I drove back to my office thinking for excuses as I know I will be late.

Some how I managed my team and I am all set for meetings and deadlines. After few hours I gott call and amazed to hear the sweet voice again, before even I go to my imagination of old telugu movies she starts asking who is who in my social networks uhhhhhhh my respect to my boss changed in a better way after I completed my cross interview sorry call with her. And my work is going good and suddenly I see a instant message asking where lunch, yes your guess is right its my wife again. Surprisingly she gave me a choice so I decided to Chinese restaurant guess what we finally ended in Thai restaurant and then I realized never to chose. Its wonderful lunch except the boring discussion why harry met sally in her office.

I rush out of office at 5:00 to pick her up off course the call, sweet voice, imagination to old movies etc all happened. This time I managed myself to drive but I have to switch off GPS and obey Wife positioning system.

We reach home and I planned to relax but then we realize a Bday party, so soon I got ready with some jeans and T -shirt and after long wait I saw a rainbow with out rain and angel walking towards me what is happening wait ...........in no time the angel changes to my wife again and gets mad at my dress, so soon my cloths are changed just like how we customize the cloths on model with a moving the cursor on laptop.

After party we are back home and I felt uneasy. She gave me tablet and did take care with great affection. Every hour I was given medicine and treated just like how mother treats her kid. When I woke up in middle of the night I see my wife still awake and wondering about me. Some how she helped me sleep and in morning I see my wife with beautiful smile and to my surprise its not dream but real. That smile brought me the thousand elephants strength and just could not leave her.

Then I realized how I am enjoying her company in whatever she does and started to realize caring and love in every deed. Now I am in heaven.

Wonderful Women

Wow today I am in little romantic mood and want to share some of the observations in my friends life and some from my own experiences although nothing great from my side.

I feel a girl who is around 24 + and independent seeks a guy who is matured, cool and ambitious in life and seriously does not like a guy who is hyper active, chatter box and easy. This girls always expects seriousness, reservedness, humbleness etc surely no no to typical Ravi Teja kind off character or exactly speaking they look at the security in life and very particular about their opinions. Damn you have to follow and appreciate otherwise some one gonna get hurt real bad.

Next girls who are between 19 to 21 will be in a fancy world and they like guys who talk well, off course need to have little sense of humor though ........some crap talk is fine here and not really objected, and they really don't like calm, humble all that big things mentioned before. Always need to cheer them up and need to respond to there problems with real seriousness though they look childish for you. They get excited to craze though not very much like teenagers but still have not lost it completely.

Whatever I said above was my observation don't take it seriously and its just for fun . Apart from this I always feel its really hard to understand girls and its definitely an art. Whatever the age or maturity, we never know what they really need and for the fact the big problem, they don't even tell openly.......... I say common!!! How we would know without you telling problem! For one moment they will be cool, talk frequently and look like great friends but all of a sudden girl stops talking for no reason, some make it big issue out of nothing. Surely it’s an art to understand them.

But I would not dare to say all girls are complicated. I know girls who are caring, loving ,cheerful and always with us when we need them. I know one thing for sure despite their complex openness they are most wonderful people and can shower love for our whole life. I hope I do my best understanding them and hope I get most wonderful women in my life.

It takes long time to realize..............................

Finally long awaited election results brought flying colors to congress party which now made its presence strongly in Center and Andhra Pradesh. This time they are unstoppable and did not have any trouble from NDA or third front.

For good or bad there is clear message that India is seeking a stable government and undoubtedly its congress which proved stable despite not being proactive during Mumbai terror attacks.

Similarly in Andhra Pradesh congress easily reached their magic figure without any hung scenario.

I guess its better this way rather than hung assembly where there would not be any stability. If we have to analyze results TDP did not really under perform but failed as a alliance. For better or worst TDP got more seats than Last election and probably this time TDP can act really strong as opposition and help congress to make proper progress in Andhra Pradesh.

And two very great disappointed party's are PRP and TRS who really underperformed but this may be good for them to learn lessons and reform to their best.

My favorite party Loksatta did not do well and that is no surprise as we all expected. Yes the realization is tough to achieve but a start with a win by JP would bring momentum in future

I personally think this party can be predominant in future if they can hold there persistence for that long time. many people felt the importance and need of a party like this for our society but a complete realization has not come. Many consider this party an ideal party but when its comes to right of vote they cast it some where . Its because internal factors let our decisions go against what we really need in society, they be it religious, caste community or groups.

I understand it’s hard to get over all this things as they are deeply rooted in us but let’s try and make a move to bring real independence to India.

Do some thing buddy!!!

Do some thing buddy.............haaaa this is what I used to hear from my friends, lot of inspiration right. Actually every one believes that I can do some thing different in life but now I am wondering where that passion has gone. Now a days I see myself watching movies and doing nothing for the day and in one way surely this is different from what others do.

Like in fairy tales where angel comes and whispers, this days I am hearing some words quite frequently, surely not from Angel.

then from where?

yes its some Angel in me motivating to try out new and reminding me that I am not kid anymore to play around or waste time. I don't know whether this is temporary or some thing I will persist to continue to explore and prosper. With that motivation I am researching into some ideas but every thing seems quixotic. But if I continue with this motivation and off course determination I think I can do some thing in life which I always dream t off.

Hope I will be succesful with all my friends support and by Gods grace. One day I will stand to my friends and parents expectations and make them proud. Wish me best of luck my friends.

Online Shopping in India.

Today as usual not a great day for Jobs in my field so I started browsing to see if we can find online deals and online shopping websites in india and I did find some wonderful websites.

1. http://www.fabmall.com/

2. http://shopping.indiatimes.com

3. http://www.ndtvshopping.com

4. http://www.shoponline-india.com/

5. http://shopping.rediff.com

and I also found www.doctorndtv.com which is similar to www.webmd.com and has got all medical treatment stuff. So with this I get a feeling that next wave in india is Online shopping.

And also I liked this www.ileher.com website which talks about the Trends for Internet Market in India. One idea may change lives.

Not really a Bad Day

Today I got up late as I did not see any reason to wake up early as I feel no hopes in finding Job and also lost interest in IPL for some reason. As a usual practice I opened Dice.com and surprisingly saw few requirements and thought for a while Market is improving. when I opened this requirements I see so many roles and felt there are multiple positions at the client and to a shock its one position with not double or triple action but dasavataram damn it. But still I felt happy for seeing a requirement than nothing and with that inspiration I applied for few other positions in other areas and job portals.

And today Deccan chargers won the match against Rajesthan Royals very easily and gave hope to watch IPL again. And for a while I read the www.fakeiplplayer.blogspot.com, here the blog author claims he is member of the team and reveals the inside story of Kolkatta. Just read if you like cricket.

Overall its not a bad day. With some hopes blossomed I am looking forward for sunshine and bye for now.

Nothing going right!!!

This Year I am feeling that things are not going well and I have reason for that in fact reasons like troubles with visa and Job.

I feel my passion is sinking just like Titanic sunken in the sea. Well if not then where is that high energy I always endured during my college days gone? I say myself common I am not the only guy facing this and I myself patted with some motivation.

We never know when an opportunity knocks the door and who knows princess comes along quiet possible!!! Right!!!.

Now a days I am deeply following IPL which is kinda carzy at first but now I started supporting Deccan Charger who initially looked great but now stepped back a bit and look inconsistent. But this is T20 and any thing can happen. This team might sneak way few wins and can surprise.

After IPL matches I watched few movies and I would recommend you to watch "The Bachelor" and "What Women wants.

Anyways bye for now………..chao!!!

How Do I understand this girls!!!

I always had this problem of understanding few Indian girls and to be very frank every other guy faces this problem. I am not just exaggerating, it’s really annoying some times with there behavior.

For one moment they appear like very close friends but then act like amnesia patient and remind as a great puzzle. That’s why I always say if you problem tell clearly but just don’t complain later.

And other problem if you talk freely they think you are a flirt otherwise the other way round. Now when I see any girl I will think twice to speak and if I do I will have to check my words, dialogue delivery and all that fake crap which I really don't like at all.

I always have good intentions and I never talked or tried to hurt there feelings. I am not seriously blaming every Indian girl but quite a few of them are unpredictable. I think its good to be open and explain when you have problem and hope they understand.

Welcome to My Little World

I wanted to write a blog about my little world but I always back dropped because of my poor writing skills. Anyways now I am taking a chance to jot down, its not because I improved my writing skills, but it’s the inspiration I got by reading blogs of all my friends.

Well I am a graduate from UNL majored in Industrial Engineering currently working for consulting firm for their in-house and client SAP SD projects. Basically I am from India and I was here for pursuing Masters where back at home I did my bachelors in Mechanical Engineering from JNT University Hyderabad.

I love acting, I am not professional or so, it’s just a hobby apart from that I love organizing events and any thing that is Public Relations. I always felt I should have majored in some related field of my interests anyways I landed in some profession by gods grace.

My Favorite sport is cricket because I only know that sport to the best moreover that sport is treated as a religion back in India and I grew up with that. More Later…………….bye for now!!!