Life some times can appear to be very complex when nothing goes right or nothing happens to your wish. Moreover it can become more complex with contrived thinking and emotions involved.
And I wondered why people go through pains for some issues which can never be resolved and some so trivial but we pull the strings so loud. However what we think trivial may not be same to person who is going through it and his/her reactions can be magnified when he/she is already in a state of depression.
In this occasions it appears that every one else except us are strong and matured but thats not always true. We see lot of people giving their opinions and perspectives and logic behind their thinking which makes us feel they are so damn right and this will influence the thinking and can change our perspectives towards life. But is that right?
Those same people who give matured suggestions might not act the same way when similar or any situation arises to them. The reason for that is the people who give advises are not affected with similar emotions you have. Its not easy for any one to fit into your shoes and give suggestions.
I also wondered how people can get so emotional about some thing so obvious, what on earth makes them feel so. And I know people who normally are soo matured become insecured about some thing which appears so obvious to rest of them. How much ever you plan to avoid, run far, you only get closer and closer the path.
Its not going to be same every day and similarly no one is going to be same with us every time. The preferences change, importance change and they totally have a different priorities. Its some times a strange feeling when you have to confront your best pal all of a sudden almost like a stranger. Hence getting attached can be very disappointing some times. And developing emotions towards someone can be really tricky. Some times how much ever you try to keep things flowing smooth we can't avoid certain misundertandings and miscommunications. All this happens because we never give chance to understand others or ourselves completely.
And one thing I understood is we always have to communicate our feelings or emotions to make people understand or value our deeds. Lot of times we just do thinking its good for them but then they may not feel the same way. Although we do with good intention it carries a differnt message and have to be watchful of what we do and how we do. And some times whatsoever you can't go beyond as there will be limit....MORE TO CONTINUE...................
And I wondered why people go through pains for some issues which can never be resolved and some so trivial but we pull the strings so loud. However what we think trivial may not be same to person who is going through it and his/her reactions can be magnified when he/she is already in a state of depression.
In this occasions it appears that every one else except us are strong and matured but thats not always true. We see lot of people giving their opinions and perspectives and logic behind their thinking which makes us feel they are so damn right and this will influence the thinking and can change our perspectives towards life. But is that right?
Those same people who give matured suggestions might not act the same way when similar or any situation arises to them. The reason for that is the people who give advises are not affected with similar emotions you have. Its not easy for any one to fit into your shoes and give suggestions.
I also wondered how people can get so emotional about some thing so obvious, what on earth makes them feel so. And I know people who normally are soo matured become insecured about some thing which appears so obvious to rest of them. How much ever you plan to avoid, run far, you only get closer and closer the path.
Its not going to be same every day and similarly no one is going to be same with us every time. The preferences change, importance change and they totally have a different priorities. Its some times a strange feeling when you have to confront your best pal all of a sudden almost like a stranger. Hence getting attached can be very disappointing some times. And developing emotions towards someone can be really tricky. Some times how much ever you try to keep things flowing smooth we can't avoid certain misundertandings and miscommunications. All this happens because we never give chance to understand others or ourselves completely.
And one thing I understood is we always have to communicate our feelings or emotions to make people understand or value our deeds. Lot of times we just do thinking its good for them but then they may not feel the same way. Although we do with good intention it carries a differnt message and have to be watchful of what we do and how we do. And some times whatsoever you can't go beyond as there will be limit....MORE TO CONTINUE...................
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